OH how I wish David was still down here! I so miss having insightful laughter with him. An odd thing about that is that we almost had the friendship that is asked for below. Granted we didn't talk a regimented amount. This thing makes me chuckle so much cause I have so many boundaries in frienships and possibly romantic relationships as it it. To put time limits places an even higher lack of value to the relationship. What is tough and odd about that is what are the rules going to be in a group setting? Do I need a stop watch for conversations.? If I go to the bathroom or make a phone call is that time subtracted? I'm sort of an organized person, but I don't use a day planner for my conversations of Friendship except with my mentor. Heck...even with her I know that we aren't going to limit each other with news to share, prayers to make, and joys to share. I praise God for these types of friends! Thanks so much to my friends that took the time to develop a relationship with me. I'll thank God for you as a go to bed tonight.
"I appreciate you and I am glad that God has chosen you so that I have a new sister in Him. I hope you are learning to love God and experience his peace and joy.All I can offer you is a plutonic friendship. And I will do so gladly.... if I thijnk that you are 'safe',My whole life I have only felt safe around women when there was no chance of romantic interest evolving. So my best female friends are either significantly older, or someone who liked me, and then I broke her heart, so that we could be 'just friends'. So if you like me or want to be more that just friends don't email me. I am a flirt, and that maybe wrong since I cannot follow through with a commitment. I am bad a drawing lines, and even though I know that spending too much time together is likely to evolve into more than a friendship; I too often choose to spend too much time with the other.But I would propose that we spend no more than 2 hours talking everyother day.So these are my problems. If you think we can be 'just friends then tell me that.
Wishing you all of God's best,"
of course I deleted the name!